10.28.2010

liberation as confinement


''The feminist agenda is not about equal rights for women. It is about a socialist, anti-family political movement that encourages women to leave their husbands, kill their children, practice witchcraft, destroy capitalism and become lesbians.'' ~ Pat Robertson


Some people are incredibly stupid.


Unfortunately, this exaggeration is not totally absurd. It's the stereotypical view of feminism & the mould society thus expects feminists to fit into. Women's liberation movements have been increasingly prevalent and successful in the past 40 years, however, as liberated as women are nowadays, women are still painfully confined to roles expected of them. Similarly with the homosexual rights movements (or even just societal acceptance that there will be gay people in this world *gasp!*), society is increasingly accepting of homosexuals, bisexuals, and transgenders (among other determinations across the spectrum of gender and sexuality), yet it is only insofar as the non-heterosexual fits the societal concept of what is "gay." ABC's Modern Family has been forward-moving in it's depiction of an openly gay couple, yet note that in the series entire 1 1/2 season run, the gay couple has yet to be depicted even sharing a kiss. It's depressing to realize that as forward as we think we are as a society, we're still not truly accepting of anything outside of a male-dominated society's expected roles of women, gays, children, etc.

10.06.2010

answer me this

in today’s world i’m left increasingly disappointed

not that i’ve had any experience with prior eras

(i’d appreciate if someone would fucking invent a time machine asap)

(that’d be pretty cool, let’s be real)

but i have a few questions


like…


since when did people become so impersonal?

1 in 5 marriages today started online…

(not that I’m against online dating)

(but I thought life partners are supposed to be more cosmically planned than that)

what happened to that attitude everyone had freshman year in college

that overwhelming sense of possibility and opportunity

that swelled upon any interaction with another person

that echoing thought: “this person could be a huge part of my life”

when did that change?


and


since when did college stop catering to the student?

i busted my ass through high school

with the only light at the end of my tunnel being that

“when you get to college you’ll only have to study the things you want”

(thanks, dad)

but then what am i struggling through language, math, and science requirements for,

destroying my gpa,

when all I want to do is study literature?


what’s going on here?